May 28

Well, it had been like a whopping four months since I’ve been in Las Vegas but just got back earlier today from three days out there. It was an outstanding trip. You would think two times in 4 months is probably a bit much but it was a fantastic trip and definitely made my long weekend off of work for Memorial Day.

Done with the desert now for awhile (since it was already getting close to a hundred degrees out there), but what a great weekend.

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May 26

I have a little something to see if I can help clear up. A good friend of mine just moved in with her boyfriend and she is taking a fair bit of criticism and just general crap from her parents, grandparents, etc. for doing so prior to getting married. My few remaining single friends and I (especially the women) are often asked (about a hundred times over the last few years in various subtle ways) when we are going to “settle down” and get married. Many of our baby boomer parents wonder when and if they will be grandparents and why we are waiting so long now to have kids.

Well to clear things up for my parents’ and my grandparents’ generations (all comments from here forth are really not aimed at anyone specific)… the reason we are all waiting a long time to get married, living together before we get married, and are very slow to have kids is because you all are divorced. 60% now of my generation are from broken families, and guess what, we all think that broken families suck. So just like we avoid owning a crappy car by test driving it, we are trying to avoid being a crappy marriage by kicking all the tires before rushing into “til death do us part”.

So, long lecture short, please look around your own generation and ask some self assessment questions before you look down your nose on our morals. Besides, what do you think it is that God really thinks is more important… providing a stable and loving living environment to his children or not sharing the same set of sheets for 6 months before you decide to spend the next 60 years together?

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May 25



12 Weeks, originally uploaded by dzvette2003.

I have debated at length posting this picture of me before and after my 12 week experiment with working out and eating better (posting half naked pictures of myself on the internet is not my deal normally). But, I just finally watched the documentary movie “Super Size Me” which is a fantastic show where a healthy guy basically totally poisons himself by eating McDonalds everyday for a month.

Well, we as a nation (and a family) are on the edge of a complete health crisis. So, I figured I’d take responsibility for my little bit of healthier living in hopes that everyone else does too.

I have a long way to go still and now really want to shift my focus to improved athletic performance since I got rid of the purely “fat ass” weight I was carrying. Like I said, a long long way to go still, but I feel much better (MUCH better) and am not nearly as self conscious as I was. Four years of college and two years of traveling was killing me but we’re back on track finally I think.

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May 23

More commentary on this later I think but for now, watch this video clip of Dr. Ron Paul and think about how many people in the Republican party are willing to stand up and say… no, being the tough guy all the time on somebody else’s home field may not be the best answer.

I wrote a blog many months ago about my hopes to be represented in government by someone with backbone, who stands up for what they believe. This guy definitely says thing that take some backbone when you are trying to get on the Republican ticket. Maybe he is just honest because he has no chance of winning, but I appreciate his descent from some poor, poor theories in the meantime.

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May 13

Defining Victory

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It seems that lately the controversy over the possibility of laying out a time line for the withdrawal of American troops from Iraq is dominating the news again. Many tired of the war are pushing very hard for a defined exit strategy while the president stands fast to a position that setting and defined withdrawal date is ’setting a date for failure’. I think to some extent, this kind of wording from the president gets to the heart of what puzzles me so much about the war.

Saying that we would be setting a date for failure implies that there is a possibility of victory. And this is the conventional thinking about war… that there must be victor and a loser. Is this really the case or is there a problem with our consciousness as it relates to modern warfare. No matter what had ever happened in Iraq, would we have ‘won’? And if so, who exactly would have ‘lost’? It seems to me that when we went to war as a nation against the state of Iraq, we were aimed at one particular objective… removal of weapons capable of “mass destruction” from the hands of a state with a government considered to be highly dangerous and irrational. Therefore, we were targeting a specific objective I thought, not “winning” a war against Iraq. There really is no victor and no loser in the traditional sense it seems.

However, if we must maintain the current state of thought that in a “war” there must be a party that experiences victory, then lets take a shot at defining victory in our current situation. The war, at least I was told, was a war on terror… not a war on Iraq. Therefore, the idea of “winning” in Iraq is irrelevant. So when I think about what it would mean to achieve a victory in the war on terror, I think that victory would be a situation where young Muslim men around the world are either no longer interested in or no longer able to kill American civilians. Please correct me if you disagree that would be a “victory” in the war on terror. Now, there are young Muslim men in nearly every country on the planet, including ours, so is it really viable to say there will ever be a situation where said individuals would be UNABLE to kill American civilians? I would say no. Now then, by following this logic (which you may or may not buy into) that would leave the one real “victory” in the war being a situation where these people no longer have a desire to kill us.

While I have no idea how to accomplish victory defined in this way, one thing does seem clear to me. The war in Iraq is causing exactly the opposite, totally counter-productive to the objective. So, I am confused as to how continuing to swat at the hornets nest exactly prevents us from ’setting a time line for failure’.

It is also important to consider the argument that the execution of military actions is making it harder for terror cells (who I thought were the real enemy) to operate on a large scale around the world. I think this argument is entirely accurate, although since it is widely known the leaders of said cells are in Afghanistan and Pakistan (and definitely no where near Iraq), it would seem to me we are staying the course in the wrong damn country.

Long story short, I am no expert on the situation in Iraq… but how my president is defining victory is a complete mystery to me I guess.

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